Safety at Five to Three

Last updated October 8, 2026

Five to Three dinners happen in person, so we treat physical safety as seriously as online safety.

How dinners are set up

• 18+ only. Date of birth is required and enforced by our database.
• Public, staffed venues. Every dinner is at a real restaurant with its staff on hand.
• Groups, not one-on-ones. You sit at a table of six to eight, with other tables around you.
• Your details stay private. Other guests learn your first name. We never share your email, birthdate or profile with them.
• Leave whenever you like. You don’t owe anyone an explanation.

Tips

• Tell a friend where you’ll be, and arrange your own way there and home.
• Stay in control of your drink.
• Share your number only when you’re comfortable. There’s no rush.
• If someone makes you uncomfortable, tell the restaurant staff or our host, and tell us afterwards.
• Never send money or financial information to someone you met at a dinner.

Get help

• If you’re in immediate danger, call 911.
• RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline: 800-656-4673 (online.rainn.org)
• National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-7233, or text START to 88788
• 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: call or text 988

Report a problem

Email hello@fivetothreeapp.com about anything that happened at or after a dinner. We read every report and will remove people from future dinners.